The first time I quit retinol, I felt like I was admitting moral failure. Skincare Twitter had told me, clearly and repeatedly, that anyone serious about aging well used a retinoid. Anything less was vanity dressed up as caution. I tried to make it work for three years, through five different formulations, including the encapsulated kind that costs more than my electric bill. My skin spent most of those three years either peeling or hiding.
So here is the honest reckoning, written in the tone I wish someone had used with me at the start.
The case I bought into
The case for retinol is genuinely strong. Topical retinoids are one of the most studied molecule classes in dermatology. They speed cellular turnover, soften photoaging, fade certain kinds of pigment, and help acne. I am not arguing with the data. The data is fine. The question is whether the data describes my face.
What the studies generally do not describe is the population of people who try retinol, react badly, and quietly stop. Those subjects drop out of trials. They drop out of routines. They become the friend who says “oh I tried that, it didn’t work for me,” and the response is always the same: “you were probably using it wrong.”
What three years of trying looked like
I started at 0.25% twice a week, buffered with moisturizer. Two months in, my cheeks felt like crepe paper. I dropped to once a week. The flaking improved, the redness did not. I switched to an encapsulated 0.3% on the theory that slower release would help. It did, for about six weeks, then the perioral dermatitis came back. I tried a sandwich method, where moisturizer goes under and over. I tried short-contact application. I tried alternating with niacinamide nights. I tried a retinal at 0.05%, then 0.1%.
By month thirty-something, I had a small shelf of half-used tubes and a face that no longer recognized SPF without complaint. The fine lines I had been trying to address were exactly where they started, only now surrounded by visible capillaries I did not have before.
The contrarian section: maybe you are not the patient in the study
Here is the part that gets me unfollowed. Tretinoin and retinol work in the trials, on the population averaged across the trial. The trial is not your skin. Skin sensitivity has a genetic component, a microbiome component, and a life-stage component, and the published studies cannot account for all three at the level of an individual face. If you have spent two full barrier-rebuild cycles trying to make a retinoid work and you are still reactive, the answer might be that this particular molecule and your particular biology do not get along. That is a real outcome, not a personal failing.
The polite version of this in dermatology literature is “intolerance.” The honest version is that the bottom 10–15% of users in retinoid tolerance studies experience persistent irritation that does not resolve with the standard advice. Someone has to be in that bracket. I am one of those people. You might be too.
What I do now
The replacement routine is not glamorous. I use a Microbiome Glow Serum in the morning because the postbiotic blend keeps my skin from reacting to its own shadow. At night I alternate bakuchiol on three nights with a peptide and ceramide moisturizer on the others, and twice a week I use a glycolic acid at 5% because my barrier handles that better than it ever handled retinol.
The single most useful change was sunscreen. Daily, reapplied, the heavy mineral kind I used to find too greasy. According to the American Academy of Dermatology, daily broad-spectrum SPF reduces photoaging more reliably than any topical anti-aging agent alone, retinoids included. That sentence does not move product, which is probably why nobody quotes it.
The bakuchiol question
Bakuchiol is not retinol. Anyone selling it as “plant retinol” is overstating. It is a different molecule with mild retinoid-like effects on collagen markers in some studies, and it irritates almost no one. The 2018 Dhaliwal study in the British Journal of Dermatology compared 0.5% bakuchiol to 0.5% retinol at twelve weeks and found comparable improvement in wrinkles and pigmentation with significantly less stinging and peeling. The study was small. The signal was real. For my purposes, “milder result with no irritation” beats “stronger result I cannot tolerate” every single time.
What I would tell my past self
Try retinol if you want. Give it two clean barrier cycles. If it works, congratulations, you have a useful tool. If after six honest months your skin is still flaring, you are allowed to put the jar down. The shelf does not care. Your face does.
For the bigger picture on why I now build routines around four products instead of fourteen, see the slow skincare manifesto. For the receipts on why simpler routines tend to outperform stacked ones, the 12-step routine post covers the attention and biology side.
FAQ
Is bakuchiol as effective as retinol? Not at the same dose, not on the same timeline. The Dhaliwal study showed comparable results at 0.5% over twelve weeks. For people who tolerate retinol fine, retinol still wins on speed. For people who do not tolerate it, bakuchiol delivers a real, if slower, anti-aging signal without the barrier cost.
Did your fine lines get worse without retinol? Honestly, no. They held about the same. What got dramatically better was redness, reactivity, and overall skin tone. Net visual outcome: better face, fewer flares.
What about prescription tretinoin, is that different? Tretinoin is stronger and works faster, but the irritation profile is similar or worse for sensitive skin. Some people who fail OTC retinol do fine on a low-dose tretinoin alternate-night protocol. If you want to test that, do it with a dermatologist, not Reddit.
Could I have done a longer buffer or lower dose? I tried 0.1% retinyl propionate. I tried encapsulated. I tried short-contact. I gave it three years. At some point “I haven’t tried hard enough” becomes the wrong answer.
Is this anti-retinol propaganda? No. It is anti-one-size-fits-all propaganda. Retinol is a useful molecule for most people. It was not useful for my face. Both can be true.
Sources
- Dhaliwal S, et al. “Prospective, randomized, double-blind assessment of topical bakuchiol and retinol for facial photoageing.” British Journal of Dermatology, 2018.
- American Academy of Dermatology. Sunscreen FAQs. aad.org
- Mukherjee S, et al. “Retinoids in the treatment of skin aging: an overview of clinical efficacy and safety.” Clinical Interventions in Aging, 2006.
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